Thank you, Miss Fear

storyteller in India

To the ones who asked me W H Y I left my very good and well-paid job in London, to the dozens emails I receive weekly asking how, and to the many messages and comments seeking advice on how to follow your desire to travel the world.

Well, here is the honest answer you were waiting for.

Fear

Yes, in November 2014 Miss Fear paid me a visit and pushed me out of my comfort zone and easy life in the UK.

Fear to be missing out, fear I would never be truly happy despite all my successes and accomplishments on the corporate ladder, fear I would postpone my own dream to travel to prioritise th common goal of a shining CV and spotless career.
Fear I would never see the world with my own eyes, photograph it or writing about it.
Fear my travel around Australasia would stay in the dream drawer forever.
Fear that I might actually die before I could see all the things I wanted to see, do, experience or be.
Fear I would never touch the Taj Mahal, speak a few words of Hindi and fear I couldn’t never surf in Australia, fear I would never ride a camel. Fear I couldn’t never see a kangaroo or hug a koala or watch the stars in the middle of the desert.
Fear I wouldn’t see the skyscrapers in Hong Kong or discover the secret of mysterious Myanmar.
Fear I would miss my one chance for happiness. And this might sound all a bit dramatic, because it is in fact. When somebody close to you does die, that fear you have dominated or forgotten for so long, comes out of nowhere and starts eating you alive. This is what happened last year and this is what got me on the road 6 months later.

FORGET YOUR CAREER, YOUR BOSS OR YOUR “STUPID” PROFESSIONAL GOALS

Get out
Eat the world
Love
Learn a new language
Dance with strangers
Close your map
Get lost
Breath
Inspire and be inspired
Switch your phone off
Laugh
Cry
Explore
Be alive

F E E L 

This is my mission.

What is yours?

 

  • Hi Sabina,

    You only started within a year? Did you save for your travels? Do you use sponsors?

    My mission is also to be inspired and to inspire, but I would like to do it with my husband and friends.

    Would you be able to enlighten me how to make a mid-career break and go for it? Blogging, photographing, video, etc.

    P.S. If you’re ever in Orlando, Florida, let me know!

    Thuyvi Gates

    On Tue, Jan 19, 2016 at 4:45 PM, The Storyteller wrote:

    > Sabrina Andrea Sachs posted: “To the ones who asked me why I left my very > good and well-paid job in London, to the dozens emails I receive weekly > asking how, and to the many messages and comments seeking advice on how to > follow your desire to travel the world. Well, here is the” >

    • Hi Thuyvi,

      Thank you for you comment and enquire!
      Please subscribe to my blog, one of the next posts is exactly about this mystery: how do I afford to travel. So, let’s discuss and share ideas then! 🙂

  • Thanks a lot for this post! Fear has definitely done great for you and is amazing when it leads you to come out of your comfort zone. Sometimes fear just pushes people back to that comfort zone, but it was good to read how a real dark feeling like fear can bring up amazing things.

    • Thank you so much Brenda !

      Miss Fear also forced me to stay in the comfort of a corporate career I enjoyed but no longer loved for 8 years. Then, I had a massive wake up call and I finally faced her and decided to hold her hand on this journey called Life. We are best friends now! 😉

  • fear can be a terrible hinder, or a major push in the right direction. looks like you’ve taken it for the best — excited to have found your journey + look forward to following along! kudos for following your heart <3

    xo christina http://www.currentlyexploring.com

    • Thank you so much, Christina! Yes, fear can be the worst enemy or a great friend. Everything depends on our attitude and how we see life, but also how much we want to go beyond our comfort zones. I’ve realised that there are some pretty happy people who just want to have a “normal”, calm life and I respect them for that!
      PS: going to check your blog right now! 🙂

  • Tom and Sheila

    Well said , Storyteller! The fear that motivated me was that events would probably change my options, not in a bad way, but I knew that marriage, kids, the burbs…have a way of changing our priorities, so I moved and started traveling solo at 20. Took an ESL teaching job in China, later took a job where I could travel, then did the local career thing with vacations as often as possible. Now, a FEW years later my husband and I travel almost as much as we’re home. 🙂

    Glad you listened to Miss Fear! Sheila

    • Thank you so much for sharing your experience, Sheila! Teaching English is one of my ideas right now, but I’m not native English, so it might be tricky..Anyhow, the world is a (huge) oyster and there are so many opportunities to explore and try, we don’t need to stay in a job for 40 years, do we?
      Glad you also listened to Miss Fear! happy life to you and your family ! x

  • Fear is so powerful: it can stop us but, as you explain here so well, can also push us to become who we really want to be and do what we really want to do. I went through a similar time, years ago and when I decided to face my fear, I latched on the lyrics of an Italian song – in English they translate roughly as: ‘I’m defenseless, but I chose to be free’. Best decision I ever made 🙂

    • You are so right! We usually under-evaluate the power of Fear. We run away from it, but it’s actually an excellent fuel for life. What is that song you are referring to? I’m Italian too! 🙂

    • I think it’s Elisa you were talking about! right? 🙂

  • I think we all need a kick in the butt from fear every now and then – it gets us moving! 🙂

    • haha! You are so right! 🙂 We should love our fears and do what we need to do! 🙂

  • Fear can be a good thing! It pushes you out of your comfort zone. Great post!

  • Beautifully written, although I would describe it more as love for what you’re getting now than fear of not having gotten it otherwise. The world is a beautiful place, enjoy!

    • Not sure I would describe it that way. The feeling I had in my stomach, the hysterical tears and the closed fists were my usual sign of deep and uncontrollable FOMO. Then now, 6 months later, I can tell I love what I am doing, but back then, no I didn’t. Thanks for sharing! 🙂

  • Great post ! I admire your courage !

    • Thank you so much Francesca! PS: I don’t consider myself a courageous person…don’t tell anyone! 😉

  • I share your fear! You’ve made the decision that we’re still afraid to make, congrats!

  • Malaika Fernandes

    You have courage, thank you for this post. I love my work and have been a workaholic for too long just about started travelling a little at a time but i am yet to do a solo trip